tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2003277816982139284.post269880088043533235..comments2023-04-27T05:14:39.389-07:00Comments on The Overcoming Optimist: "I don't trust you!"Roc E Wordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12075918450408082116noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2003277816982139284.post-90014445106860019522015-11-05T17:18:21.089-08:002015-11-05T17:18:21.089-08:00That's a fantastic idea! It really is about be...That's a fantastic idea! It really is about being safe and feeling at home with the one you love the most. It takes so much work to overcome that fear once it is set and validated. But it will be done! Thank you for your comment! Fighting!Roc E Wordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12075918450408082116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2003277816982139284.post-26211115591182964722015-11-04T20:16:51.070-08:002015-11-04T20:16:51.070-08:00Thanks for sharing. This reminded me of a really i...Thanks for sharing. This reminded me of a really interesting idea my counselor said to me this week. He said we aren't even going to use the word "trust" for two years...instead he said the better word is safety--rather than being concerned about when she's going to trust me again, I should be most concerned about creating a safe environment for her. Anyway, just an interesting idea. Thanks for your post!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10735570554154258740noreply@blogger.com